[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/zapomente-na-zakazy-na-zlobive-deti-stejne-neplati\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/zapomente-na-zakazy-na-zlobive-deti-stejne-neplati\/","headline":"Zapome\u0148te na z\u00e1kazy, na zlobiv\u00e9 d\u011bti stejn\u011b neplat\u00ed","name":"Zapome\u0148te na z\u00e1kazy, na zlobiv\u00e9 d\u011bti stejn\u011b neplat\u00ed","description":"Po\u0159ekadlo o tom, \u017ee mal\u00e9 d\u011bti rovn\u00e1 se mal\u00e9 starosti, se bohu\u017eel dost \u010dasto m\u00edj\u00ed s realitou. \u201eNe, Ondr\u00e1\u0161ku, nesahej na tu lampu!\u201d \u201eNeotv\u00edrej to!\u201d \u201ePolo\u017e ten mobil, Kiki, nech to b\u00fdt!\u201d \u201eNed\u011blej to, p\u0159esta\u0148, ne ne ne!\u201d Jsou v\u00e1m tyhle v\u011bty n\u011bjak pov\u011bdom\u00e9? Tolik z\u00e1kaz\u016f najednou, v\u0161echno to uhl\u00eddat, \u010dlov\u011bk by se z toho […]","datePublished":"2025-02-23","dateModified":"2025-02-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bidrin.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336123_w2773_t1549480459.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a336123_w2773_t1549480459.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/zapomente-na-zakazy-na-zlobive-deti-stejne-neplati\/","wordCount":701,"articleBody":"Po\u0159ekadlo o tom, \u017ee mal\u00e9 d\u011bti rovn\u00e1 se mal\u00e9 starosti, se bohu\u017eel dost \u010dasto m\u00edj\u00ed s realitou. \u201eNe, Ondr\u00e1\u0161ku, nesahej na tu lampu!\u201d \u201eNeotv\u00edrej to!\u201d \u201ePolo\u017e ten mobil, Kiki, nech to b\u00fdt!\u201d \u201eNed\u011blej to, p\u0159esta\u0148, ne ne ne!\u201d  Jsou v\u00e1m tyhle v\u011bty n\u011bjak pov\u011bdom\u00e9? Tolik z\u00e1kaz\u016f najednou, v\u0161echno to uhl\u00eddat, \u010dlov\u011bk by se z toho n\u011bkdy zbl\u00e1znil. Ale co teprve mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b? Jak si asi p\u0159ipad\u00e1, kdy\u017e tohle sly\u0161\u00ed stokr\u00e1t denn\u011b? Nejsp\u00ed\u0161 je mu to jedno, proto\u017ee u\u017e to ani nevn\u00edm\u00e1. P\u0159ece se vlastn\u011b nakonec nic tak stra\u0161n\u00e9ho nestane a m\u00e1ma nebo t\u00e1ta si jen dokola jedou to svoje.  No jo, ale co s t\u00edm? D\u00edt\u011b p\u0159ece mus\u00ed poslechnut rodi\u010de, nem\u016f\u017ee si d\u011blat, co chce! Nav\u00edc by se mohlo n\u011bjak zranit, n\u011bco rozb\u00edt, zkr\u00e1tka se stane n\u011bco, co nechceme. Tak\u017ee ned\u00e1 se nic d\u011blat, prost\u011b mu to jeho \u201ev\u00fdtr\u017enictv\u00ed\u201d zak\u00e1\u017eeme po stopades\u00e1t\u00e9. Jednou si u\u017e snad mus\u00ed d\u00e1t \u0159\u00edct! Anebo ne? Co kdy\u017e je cel\u00e1 tahle zakazovac\u00ed strategie \u00fapln\u011b \u0161patn\u011b? Ne\u0161lo by to ud\u011blat n\u011bjak jinak? A ide\u00e1ln\u011b tak, aby to u\u017e kone\u010dn\u011b fungovalo? T\u0159eba to v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 \u201ezloben\u00ed\u201d nen\u00ed v\u016fbec m\u00edn\u011bno schv\u00e1ln\u011b. T\u0159eba je to zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm ten mal\u00fd \u201euli\u010dn\u00edk\u201d objevuje sv\u011bt. \u0158e\u0161en\u00ed je p\u0159ekvapiv\u011b jednoduch\u00e9 Asi se te\u010f lehce usm\u00edv\u00e1te a pochybova\u010dn\u011b si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, co z toho teda vyleze. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee jste zkou\u0161eli i jin\u00e9 metody, po dobr\u00e9m, po zl\u00e9m, horem, dolem, sliby, v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eky, pou\u010dky\u2026 N\u011bkdy to zabere, jindy ne. A po pravd\u011b, t\u011bch \u201ejindy\u201d je znateln\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0159ada. A co kdybyste prost\u011b p\u0159estali zakazovat? Stejn\u011b dob\u0159e v\u00edte, \u017ee to ve v\u00fdsledku nikam nevede a jenom v\u00e1s to unavuje a frustruje. M\u00edsto toho zkuste vymyslet n\u011bjakou alternativu, kter\u00e1 nebude \u201ebolet\u201d ani v\u00e1s, ani d\u00edt\u011b. A je\u0161t\u011b ne\u017e se do toho vym\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed sami pust\u00edte, zeptejte se, co si o tom vlastn\u011b mysl\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 drobe\u010dek. \u201eTen \u017ee by si n\u011bco myslel?\u201d Nam\u00edtnete. \u201eV\u017edy\u0165 je\u0161t\u011b ani nemluv\u00ed!\u201d Ano, mo\u017en\u00e1 nemluv\u00ed, ale rozhodn\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1, co se kolem d\u011bje a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm, jak na to reagujete vy. Kdy\u017e d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco, co se v\u00e1m nel\u00edb\u00ed a opakovan\u011b kv\u016fli tomu vylet\u00edte, je to pro n\u011bj vzr\u016f\u0161o, n\u011bco se d\u011bje, v\u00ed, \u017ee se od v\u00e1s do\u010dk\u00e1 zn\u00e1m\u00e9 reakce. Tak\u017ee, p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b ne\u017e na Ondr\u00e1\u0161ka zase nastoup\u00edte, pod\u00edvejte se nejd\u0159\u00edv, pro\u010d ho ta lampa tolik zaj\u00edm\u00e1. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee ji nechce shodit na zem a u\u017e v\u016fbec ne celou zlikvidovat. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee vid\u011bl, jak ji zap\u00edn\u00e1te, a te\u010f by si to cht\u011bl taky zkusit? Sta\u010d\u00ed se zeptat. A naj\u00edt spole\u010dn\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. T\u0159eba n\u011bjak takhle: \u201eTob\u011b se l\u00edb\u00ed to sv\u011bt\u00fdlko tam naho\u0159e?\u201d D\u00edt\u011b ukazuje ru\u010di\u010dkou na \u017e\u00e1rovku. \u201eAha, ty by sis to cht\u011bl rozsv\u00edtit, ale nedos\u00e1hne\u0161 tam?\u201d Natahuje se k v\u00e1m, abyste ho zvedli. \u201eTak to tady zm\u00e1\u010dkni. No vid\u00ed\u0161, u\u017e sv\u00edt\u00ed!\u201d Pokl\u00e1d\u00e1te va\u0161eho \u0161ikulku zp\u00e1tky na zem a jenom ti\u0161e z\u00edr\u00e1te, jak fascinovan\u011b sleduje tu \u201eob\u00e1vanou\u201d lampu. Necht\u011bl ji rozb\u00edt, jenom v\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee se d\u00e1 rozsv\u00edtit. Vy jste mu to umo\u017enili. A to je vlastn\u011b cel\u00e9. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to je\u0161t\u011b p\u00e1rkr\u00e1t budete muset zopakovat, ale kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b uvid\u00ed, \u017ee kolem toho vlastn\u011b nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd cirkus a \u017ee to dokonce \u201eje dovolen\u00e9\u201d, p\u0159estane se t\u00edm zab\u00fdvat. Najde si zase novou z\u00e1bavu a bude jen na v\u00e1s, zda mu ji zp\u0159\u00edstupn\u00edte, nebo se vr\u00e1t\u00edte do star\u00e9ho koloto\u010de.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Zapome\u0148te na z\u00e1kazy, na zlobiv\u00e9 d\u011bti stejn\u011b neplat\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.bidrin.cz\/zapomente-na-zakazy-na-zlobive-deti-stejne-neplati\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]